tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9831401.post113734727238999779..comments2024-03-27T06:37:27.723-04:00Comments on Blogdamnit! What in de heyall is dis?: The Nationwide Virtual Cat FightUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9831401.post-1137558142134278942006-01-17T23:22:00.000-05:002006-01-17T23:22:00.000-05:00The beauty of discourse, only in places like this ...The beauty of discourse, only in places like this it’s borderline cyber pulling hairs and bitch slapping. I think both are pulling punches, but let’s go back a few post and see that it was Southern Belle who threw the first salvo across the bow. So from there it’s fair game, only for one small detail, you are in FloDi’s house here. If it gets too hot, you don’t have to stay. So the fact that the comments keeps flying by still tell me that there is an interest, either in bickering or in trying to find a more altruistic outcome. <BR/><BR/>I will be blunt here, the different between Northern and Southern is that Southern women hold it all in because they have to always appear nice. Northern women in the other hand have to appear tough. In the end the same façade. In the inside both care about their children as much as the other, motherhood is universal, so neither are better. Your genes, what drives your instinct to care is universal. You both have it. But you simply do not understand each other. You both hide behind the need to protect your own vulnerabilities. Is there anything wrong with that? Absolutely not. The problem is that both project your realities to justify why the other is so wrong and different. So you are both wrong. You are both right. But you are both passionate about how you love your children that the position that life has thrown upon yourselves. One, a marketing person, the other one a chef. Hmmm. Both work hard, give everything with passion, both creative, both stubborn and explosive. <BR/><BR/>So ladies, embrace your differences and thank god that is what brings both of you together. Without the discourse, the exchange, it would be all nice, or your tough, instead we have a moment of exchange and a chance to see how the other one lives. And I believe it’s tough for both, so I bow my hat to the two of you. Even if you don’t kiss and make up. <BR/><BR/>LAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9831401.post-1137523985059102442006-01-17T13:53:00.000-05:002006-01-17T13:53:00.000-05:00so go to HER blog then! pretty simple.Flydiso go to HER blog then! <BR/>pretty simple.<BR/><BR/>FlydiFlyDihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02707618437484070854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9831401.post-1137521392198907262006-01-17T13:09:00.000-05:002006-01-17T13:09:00.000-05:00Actually, there was more than one MAN in the cat f...Actually, there was more than one MAN in the cat fight, including this one, who still thinks the Southern Belle has a point.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com